Incontinence is something most men don’t talk about—until it becomes too disruptive to ignore. But Dr. Gerald Brock, a seasoned urologist and professor at Western University, wants to change that with the help of Depend. “Men’s health is a really exciting new avenue,” he says. “But it’s been largely ignored. Guys typically avoid the doctor until things get bad, especially for something like urinary leaks. There’s a stigma, a silence—but the truth is, it’s far more common than people think.”
In a candid conversation with Gents Post, Dr. Brock shares the facts, the misconceptions, the solutions that work, and the very real effects male incontinence has on everyday life.
See also: Gents, let’s talk about ‘leaks’: A full incontinence guide for men
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What is male incontinence?
Put simply, male incontinence is the involuntary leakage of urine. It comes in many forms, from the sudden, intense urge to go (urge incontinence) to leaks caused by pressure from coughing or lifting (stress incontinence) or a mix of both. And it can strike men of any age. “Roughly 10% of men in their 30s and 40s will experience it,” says Dr. Brock. “And that number climbs with age. For men over 60, it can be as high as one in three.”
But it’s not just about aging. Prostate surgery, diabetes, neurological conditions, and even lifestyle factors like obesity or excessive bladder holding can all contribute to leaks.
The psychological toll
Beyond the physical inconvenience, the mental impact of male incontinence is huge. “Guys will tell me, ‘It only happens once or twice a week,’ but that’s enough to affect quality of life,” Dr. Brock explains. “They become less social. They avoid situations where they might not have bathroom access. Some even wear tissues in their underwear.”
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That last point is one Dr. Brock stresses repeatedly—not just because it’s ineffective, but because it points to a deeper issue: the unnecessary approach that prevents men from seeking proper help. “You’re not fooling anyone with tissue,” he says. “It doesn’t control smell, doesn’t wick moisture. We’re doing men a disservice by not talking about real solutions.”
Real solutions that work
For decades, incontinence solutions were generic, bulky, and often designed with women in mind. But Depend offers products tailored specifically to men’s bodies, needs, and lifestyles. Their line isn’t just about managing leaks—it’s about restoring confidence and normalcy. Depend Shields and Guards Designed to fit discreetly within regular underwear, these products contour to the male body, locking in moisture while neutralizing odor.
“Men often try to manage leaks with whatever’s available—but tissues don’t wick moisture or contain odor,” says Dr. Brock. Moreover, 40 per cent of men also opt to use feminine care products to manage bladder leaks versus products specifically designed for leaks. “Depend Guards are designed with real materials that do. It’s like comparing a paper towel to a high-performance athletic sock.” Guards are best for maximum protection—unexpected or larger surges, stress-related leaks during physical activity, or those occasional days when urgency becomes overwhelming. It’s built with an absorbent core and adhesive backing to stay in place, even when you’re on the move.
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For lighter drips or leaks or early-stage symptoms, Depend Shields offer an ultra thin option that provides reliable protection without bulk. Both products are discreet enough for daily use and subtle enough that no one will notice—not even at the gym or in fitted clothes. “Having products like this changes everything,” says Dr. Brock. “When men feel protected, they’re more likely to stay active, engage socially, and take the next step toward managing the issue medically.”
For many men, these products are the first step in reclaiming freedom—freedom to be yourself, to connect, to live fully without hesitation. And that’s something every man deserves. Fortunately, we’ve come a long way. Products like the Depend Guard and Shield are specifically designed to keep men dry, comfortable, and confident.
Why speaking up matters
Despite the tools available, most men still suffer in silence. The comparison to erectile dysfunction is apt—another taboo that’s now part of mainstream conversation.
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“We’re where ED was 10 or 20 years ago,” Dr. Brock says. “Once we began talking openly, treatments followed. That’s what we need here.” Even younger men are affected. Studies show 4–5% of men under 30 experience leaks. And for men who’ve undergone prostate cancer treatment, it’s even more common. “This isn’t rare. It’s real. And it’s manageable,” Dr. Brock emphasizes. “But only if we talk about it.”
A better way forward
From gyms to flights to offices, bladder leaks can disrupt everyday routines. But with better awareness and solutions at hand, men don’t have to sacrifice comfort or confidence.
“You wouldn’t wear a wet bathing suit all day,” Dr. Brock says. “Why tolerate leaks when there’s help available?” His advice is simple: don’t ignore it. Start by trying a dedicated product like Depend. If it persists, see your doctor. And above all, know you’re not alone. “Incontinence doesn’t define you. But it’s trying to tell you something about your health,” he says. “So listen—and act.”
Request a free sample of Depend here.
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