Getting a first date is one thing, but getting a second date can be a little trickier. If you’re interested in seeing someone again and building a relationship, there are a few things you can do to increase your chances of getting a second date. Here are four ways to get a second date:
Show genuine interest
One of the most important things you can do on a first date is to show genuine interest in the other person. Ask questions about their life, interests, and goals. Listen to their answers and respond thoughtfully. Showing interest lets your date know that you’re not just there to talk about yourself but that you genuinely want to get to know them better.
Be yourself
Just like on a first date, it’s essential to be yourself when trying to get a second date. Don’t try to be someone you’re not or pretend to be interested in things you’re not just to impress your date. If your date doesn’t like the real you, then they’re not the right match. It’s better to find out sooner rather than later.
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Plan something fun
If you’re interested in seeing someone again, plan something fun for the second date. Think about what you both enjoy doing and plan an activity around that. It could be something as simple as going to a movie or trying out a new restaurant. The key is to plan something that you’ll both enjoy and that will allow you to get to know each other better.
Follow up
After the first date, it’s important to follow up if you’re interested in seeing the person again. Send a text or call them to let them know that you had a good time and that you’d like to see them again. Be specific about what you’d like to do on the second date and suggest a time and date. This lets your date know that you’re serious about wanting to see them again and takes the pressure off of them to make the first move.
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