October 10th marks World Mental Health Day, a vital day dedicated to raising awareness and advocating for mental health issues worldwide. It’s a reminder of the importance of mental well-being and the need for support and open conversations. For men, in particular, this day highlights the importance of challenging cultural norms and stereotypes that often discourage us from speaking about our mental health.
See also: Movember: Changing the face of men’s health one ‘MO’ at a time
The stigma surrounding men’s mental health
For generations, men have been taught that strength means stoicism. They are often encouraged to be the “rock” for their families, friends, and communities—strong, silent, and impervious to emotional distress. This conditioning has created a stigma around men’s mental health, where vulnerability is mistakenly equated with weakness. Consequently, many men feel they must face their struggles alone, leading to a reluctance to seek help or talk about what they are going through.
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The statistics paint a worrying picture. Research shows that men are less likely than women to seek mental health support. In many countries, suicide rates are significantly higher among men, especially those aged 45 and older. These numbers indicate a deeper, systemic issue: a culture that often fails to provide men with the space and acceptance to be emotionally vulnerable.
Why world mental health day matters
World Mental Health Day is an opportunity to shatter these harmful stereotypes and promote healthier attitudes toward mental health, particularly for men. It’s a day that underscores the importance of reaching out and connecting—two powerful actions that can break down the barriers that prevent men from seeking support.
By encouraging men to open up, the day serves as a reminder that seeking help is not a sign of weakness but a display of courage. Talking about struggles, anxieties, and fears requires immense strength, and when men do so, they not only begin their own healing process but also inspire others around them to do the same. It’s about shifting the narrative and creating an environment where men feel safe to express themselves without judgment.
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Let’s talk masculinity…
On October 18th, Movember is hosting an in-person panel in Toronto at the Globe and Mail Centre. I will be moderating the panel consisting of Tychon Carter, Dr. Ellen Choi & JP Saxe to talk about modern masculinity and the role it plays in shaping men today. This is a free event and open to the public with the intention of promoting healthy masculinity and talking about men’s mental health. For those who cannot attend, the panel is being taped and will be published as part of a Gent’s Talk episode in November. Tickets can be found here.
The power of talking and sharing
Opening up to someone about your struggles can be an incredibly healing act. Studies show that simply talking about one’s feelings can reduce the intensity of emotional pain. When men engage in honest conversations about their mental health, they often experience relief, clarity, and a sense of connection. This is because sharing with someone else breaks the cycle of isolation, one of the most dangerous aspects of struggling with mental health issues.
Unfortunately, many men believe that their problems are a burden to others or that no one will understand. This mindset perpetuates isolation and makes reaching out seem daunting. World Mental Health Day is a powerful reminder that there are people who care and want to listen—whether that’s a friend, a family member, or a mental health professional.
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Moreover, talking openly about mental health creates a ripple effect. When one man speaks up, it encourages others to follow suit. It normalizes these conversations, showing that it’s okay to not be okay. By using platforms like social media or participating in local community events on this day, men can be part of a movement that breaks down stigma and fosters a supportive environment for mental health discussions.
Practical steps for men to take on World Mental Health Day
World Mental Health Day isn’t just about raising awareness; it’s about taking action. Men can use this day as a starting point for making positive changes in their mental well-being and encouraging others to do the same. Here are some practical steps:
- Reach Out: Make a point to connect with someone you trust—whether it’s a friend, a family member, or a professional. Opening up, even if it feels uncomfortable at first, is a crucial step toward finding relief and support.
- Listen and Support Others: Being a good listener can have a significant impact. If a friend reaches out, offer them your time and attention. Sometimes, just being there for someone else can help you recognize your own need for support.
- Engage in Mental Health Initiatives: Participate in events, workshops, or online discussions related to World Mental Health Day. These activities can offer new perspectives and connect you with resources that may be helpful.
- Practice Self-Care: Use this day to prioritize self-care. This might mean setting aside time for physical activity, mindfulness, or relaxation—whatever helps you recharge and refocus on your well-being.
- Encourage Open Conversations in Your Circles: If you’re comfortable, share your experiences with mental health, either in person or online. Your story could be the encouragement someone else needs to seek help.
Changing the conversation around men’s mental health
World Mental Health Day is about more than just one day of awareness. It’s an opportunity to create lasting change and break down the barriers preventing men from accessing the support they need. The goal is to cultivate a culture where men feel empowered to speak up and seek help, rather than hiding their struggles out of fear of judgment.
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Men must know that their feelings are valid and that seeking help is a sign of strength, not failure. By opening up and talking to someone, they are taking a critical step toward mental and emotional well-being. It’s essential that society supports this journey by normalizing vulnerability and building safe spaces for honest conversations.
World Mental Health Day serves as a powerful reminder that mental health is universal and that everyone, regardless of gender, deserves the support and space to heal. For men, this day is an opportunity to reject the old, harmful stereotypes of stoicism and embrace a more open, supportive approach to well-being.
By encouraging men to speak out and share their stories, we can build a world where mental health is treated with the same importance as physical health—a world where strength is defined not by silence, but by the courage to be open, honest, and vulnerable.
Feature image by Aleksandar Andreev
