If you are a guy in a long term relationship, new commitment, or just newly dating, Valentine’s Day can be a very stressful time. It’s a high stakes endeavour that will either gain you massive points or land you in the dog house. What gift to get? What special thing to do? With the commercial market in full swing, it can be a crazy time with the expectation buildup that happens. It’s the biggest love day of the year so you gotta go hard to make it extra special. The key to a great valentines experience for you and that special someone is in the planning and execution. Here are a few suggestions to get the most out of Valentine’s Day.
Night Out
Pick a place that you know the setting will provide an air of romance, great service, great cocktails and great food. Book your reservation in advance and make sure you are dressed well. You are looking to create a vibe with the entire scenery and mood. Bar Reyna is a great spot that covers all those areas.
Night In
Planning a night in can be tricky, but it gives you an opportunity to really make this night your own and truly memorable. Set the mood, whether it’s with flowers, scented candles or creative draping, you can transform your place into an exotic scenery. Cook them a meal, a great place to pick up amazing ingredients is chef David Rocco, who has authentic Italian sauces and pastas and even has a great cook book to help you prepare an amazing meal that will impress your partner. Pair with a great bottle of champagne or wine and the night is yours.
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Sensual
Why not make love day an extra special day of sensual play, exploration, and lovemaking. Remember, setting the mood is essential. Flower petals and candles help. Run a sexy hot bath with all the right bath ingredients, climb in with your partner with glasses of champagne. After, treat your partner to a sexy massage with scented oils. Turn the heat all the way up with sex toys, blindfolds, binds and a whip or paddle, create and explore a fantasy. LoveHoney has a great selection to choose from to make your plans easier. Again, be confident, go slow, build up trust as you progress through this night of hot fun.
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Whatever you decide remember this is a night of expressing how you feel about the person you are with so put yourself in a service mindset and confidently deliver an incredible experience.
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